Nepotism is seen as patronage bestowed or favoritism shown on the basis of family relationship, as in business and politics, it is the practice among those with power or influence of favoring relatives or friends, especially by giving them job, the thing is, nepotism is only prominent when it is not based on merit. But,the thing is that in our present society each and every promotion or priviledge you give your relative even when it is based on ''CREDIT'' is nepotism and that is not right. The fact that other people are nepotic it does not mean everyone is, people don't look at the base of the relative's promotion because they have already programmed their brains to recognise all the individuals progress to be based on nepotic actions. Sometimes, it can be because of jealousy, you may know that the individual is better than you but you don't want to be seen as infirior to him amongst your peers so you cover your shame with the umbrella of ''NEPOTISM'' because his relative is in control. Today, I want to change our mind set and perspective of seeing things, not every relative action taken is nepotism, before you make your judgement, analyze the matter, does he merit it? that is the question you are to check critically before passing your judgement, never rush into conclusion.